Recently I had an experience with my own son that opened my eyes about the need for compassion and understanding from adults when it comes to young children with autism. We were at a park playing, and there was another child, a beautiful little girl, who had autism. My son asked me about her and I of course, gave my best “teacher, child-friendly, motherly explanation” of what it was. I explained to him that all children learn things on their own terms, and in their own ways, and that she was no different. That it may take her longer to learn things, either academically, or socially, but if she keeps working hard, she will eventually get it, in her own unique way. I also made sure that he understood that just because she didn’t talk, didn’t mean that she didn't understand. He listened intently and then excitedly said, “So I can play with her, just like I play with anybody else??” He ran over to where she was playing in the sandbox and when he did, her caregiver repeatedly told him, “She has autism, she doesn't understand!” I overheard him loudly say to this woman, “just because she has autism, does NOT mean that she doesn’t understand!!!” Then he continued to explain to her, as I just did to him, about how she learns differently and she will get it, it will just be on her own terms. The woman rolled her eyes at my son, as he continued to play in the sandbox with his new friend…
I was so proud of my little boy and his confidence in sticking up for this girl who didn't have a voice of her own. This experience got me thinking about different books that could help children learn more about autism so that they can be as compassionate and loving as my son was that day on the playground. I think that if we start teaching our children early enough, then hopefully one day, there will be no more adults like that caregiver, to say insensitive and untrue things, such as “she has autism, she doesn't understand!” -Amy Keveanos, Teacher Celebrate The Children So here it is… In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism by Adonya Wong Connor's Gift: Embracing Autism in this New Age by Tracie Carlos Keisha's Doors: An Autism Story by Marvie Ellis The Girl Who Spoke with Pictures: Autism Through Art by Eileen Miller Leah's Voice by Lori DeMonia Tacos Anyone? An Autism Story by Marvie Ellis Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew by Ellen Notbohm Looking after Louis by Lesley Ely We're Going to Do It!: An illustration of The trials and tribulations Families of Autistic, ADHD and other special needs children may experience during the early years. by Christopher A. Chaplin The Autism Acceptance Book: Being a Friend to Someone With Autism by Ellen Sabin Since We're Friends: An Autism Picture Book by Celeste Shally My Friend with Autism: A Coloring Book for Peers and Siblings by Beverly Bishop I Am Utterly Unique: Celebrating the Strengths of Children with Asperger Syndrome and High-Functioning Autism by Elaine Marie Larson All About My Brother by Sarah Peralta A Is for Autism F Is for Friend: A Kid's Book for Making Friends with a Child Who Has Autism by Joanna L. Keating-Velasco Ian's Walk: A Story about Autism by Laurie Lears
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My Senior year of high school was spent working at a graphic design company designing police vehicle lettering and signs. I spent hours upon hours in the art room perfecting paintings and clay sculptures. This was what I truly thought my passion would be career wise for the rest of my working life. I went on to pursue a degree in Fine Arts and Graphic design, and obtained that degree all while working in the graphic design field. Over all those years my father always told me, “I really thought you would be a teacher, it’s what you’re meant for.” But, as children do, I never truly listened.
Eight years later I was still working as a graphic designer at a sign company, my work graced the inside of Met Life Stadium, Newark airport and even a small town in Louisiana. But, I was miserable. I couldn’t stand sitting in front of a computer all day, I was bored of it and was slowly realizing that my heart was not in it anymore. I received the opportunity to teach at Warren Community College for a Basic Design class and realized I loved teaching and maybe, just maybe, my father was on to something. I began taking the classes needed to begin my career as an educator, and two years later took a paraprofessional job at a private school just to get my feet wet. The plan in my head was to be an art teacher, but as I found before that plan in your head isn’t always the one you are meant to take. The school I started at was Celebrate the Children, and ever so quickly my heart opened up to amazing children with incredible abilities and I started to realize this was where I was meant to teach. This is now my second year as a teacher at Celebrate the Children, and each and every day my students amaze me and make me see things in wonderful ways. I might walk into my classroom and watch a student pull a chair over for a friend, or see a student’s eyes beam as they start to truly understand how to tie their shoes. And, when I watch my one student who rarely speaks touch the hand of another and say hi without any prompting it makes me realize I could have never expected this. These children have made me see how wonderful it is to be a teacher, and that all the time and effort I put in to my job is worth every smile, tear and gleam in the eye. I should have always known that my father had always known best. Tiffany Martino, Teacher, Celebrate the Children Supported typing has caused a breakthrough in silence. Supported typing, also commonly referred to as Facilitated Communication (FC), is a strategy for improving motor skills to enable someone to type, point to or touch objects, pictures, or letters for communication purposes. According to the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, FC is done by a facilitator, who provides communication, emotional, physical supports to a person with significant communication disability in order to communicate.
The method has allowed nonverbal individuals the opportunity to share their worlds. This communication strategy has allowed circles of relationships to emerge. Unquestionably, supported typing has changed the communication landscape for those without a traditional voice. Despite positive claims, there are still looming questions, such how students who are nonverbal type if they are not looking at the keyboard. Further, how can this same subgroup use such eloquent speech higher than grade level? Moreover, how is it possible to have the ability to read and write without prior formal training? Additionally, how can they have so much knowledge, be in college, but not answer questions in a controlled setting? Last, it is extremely difficult for many to conceptualize how an individual might need a tremendous amount of physical support to communicate through typing. In current years, however, studies have confirmed supported typing as a legitimate strategy through eye tracking (Grayson et al., 2011), linguistic analysis (Zanobini & Scopese, 2001; Niemi & Karna-Lin, 2002; Tuzzi, 2009), evidence of unexpected speech (Broderick & Kasa-Hendrickson, 2001; Kasa-Hendrickson, Broderick, & Hanson, 2009), typing with little or zero support, talking aloud before and during typing (Biklen, 2005; Biklen & Burke, 2006). Imagine having the communication window to your world shut permanently. Supported typing opens that window in a way that allows fresh ideas, thoughts, opinions, feelings, academic achievements, social and emotional development to finally blow in like a breeze cooling off years of frustration for many of our students, like Patrick. Patrick, for example, typed for the first time in 2009, and everyone was excited about his unexpected communication and cognitive ability. People’s views of him were completely changed. He shared thoughts, ideas, and feelings about his world with others. Finally, Patrick was able to demonstrate valid communication. From all accounts, the introduction to supported typing was the best part of Patrick’s academic and social life. People treated Patrick with respect and more like a teenager. However, despite being hopeful, his mother continued to worry about Patrick’s future. Finally though, Patrick had a voice! Through supported typing, educators, friends, and family members can finally hear Patrick’s communication. Within the construct of this communication approach, Patrick was able to experience academic achievement, enhance motor-planning skills, improve multi-sensory integration, increase self-esteem, and build on social growth. This communication strategy helped Patrick to progress in the functional, emotional, and developmental levels. Even in the face of unpleasant previous school experiences, Patrick managed to walk on the communication road of life with a positive attitude. Now, Patrick is not only a gentle giant but also considered a student leader within the school setting. For the first time, the world could see Patrick’s infectious charm and hear his heart-wrenching story. Supported typing allowed Patrick to demonstrate intelligence, communicate, and express his joy. To the pleasure of many, Patrick is no longer trapped in complete silence! Dr. Michael Knox, Principal, Celebrate the Children Keir and Jeff are happy to give you their final issue for this year. Last week only Keir contributed but this week, Keir, Jeff and our newest member Vickie contributed. Enjoy!! Question: What insights into people and human nature have you gained through interacting with the world through typing/FC that you would not have gained if you interacted verbally? Keir: I think previous to typing is when I gained most insight because many people doubted my retention of anything so I could hear peoples true thoughts and see their true colors. I think people can learn most about others when you see how they treat those they think as their lessees. I also think I have gained more insight since typing because I can ask more questions allowing me to seek insight. Question: In your opinion, what is the most important thing to teach a child? Keir: I think compassion for all gods creatures because compassion is the foundation for humanity and the basic understanding for other emotions. As society is growing compassion is lessening at an alarming rate. The more compassion for everyone the greater chance the earth has of surviving from the people who live on it to the earth itself which gives us life. Jeff: I think the most important thing to teach a child is acceptance. just understanding that anyone can be dealing with isolation front he speaking world but we have little ability to initiate these interactions. I need to besse as Jeff a seventeen year old with aspirations and feelings. Go deep in your heart and see me. Vickie: To shpw love To brlive in yourself family should find ti,e to help with good homework that is what helps the most To respectful to yourself and others FINAL COMMENTS FOR THE YEAR: Keir: This is not the last time you will be hearing from us. Stay tuned and keep the questions rolling. Be nice to people. Jeff: Just have a great summer and be safe. Vickie: Just want to do this more next year. Vickie had a final questions for Keir and Jeff, "What is it like in high school?" Jeff: Lots of stuff to learn but also homework good to learn so much. Keir: Its awesome because people really start to treat you your age and work on independence. They also take your thoughts extra seriously and you can advocate for yourself better. Vickie: Feel excited to feed my brain Happy Summer Everyone!!!! Please note the answers to the questions have been typed by the students and have not been altered, edited or reformatted in anyway. These are their genuine thoughts and responses.
We'd love to hear from you! If you would like to ask a question, please comment to this blog post, post to our Facebook page or send an email to [email protected]. The (Hold up Spongebob “The” for all to see. Act confused.) Oh. Wait. Wrong speech. Where is that stupid thin- A HA! It’s on the back of this paper. Silly me! Wonder how that got in there. *ahem* Today, I will be graduating from high school and entering the adult program. This also means I’m going to be leaving Karen’s class for the first time since Byram. Sure, I spent those two years at Hunterdon, but I’m not going to count those. I’ve been in and out of CTC for many years. When I went to Byram, I was in sixth grade, lost and confused. I was scarred by certain experiences in public school and only had a cartoon character for support. The class I was originally placed in wasn’t challenging enough for me. In addition, many of my friends were in Karen’s class. To solve this dilemma, I took my chair one day and climbed up three flights of stairs. That’s what you had to do back in the day, barefoot, uphill both ways in the snow. Anyway. Karen’s class was originally a bit too challenging for me, but I got used to it. Some days, it’s still too challenging, but that’s okay. I’m been getting much better at managing the tough stuff, especially this year. I also learned that I could have human friends without sacrificing my fictional ones. Unfortunately, I won’t be able to see them as much now that I’m moving to the adult program. I will miss them all. Luckily, I will still attend some of Karen’s classes, so this isn’t goodbye forever. That’s going to come when I’m twenty-one, so save your tissues. What else? I loved working on the Spring Concert with you guys, especially this year. I was more involved in this Spring Concert than any other. Everyone came together and made a great skit involving singing bananas and huge Mickey Mouse puppets. Next year is probably going to be even busier because I’ll be helping with not only my new class, but Karen’s class if possible. Working with you guys is just that awesome. So yea, that’s about it. I guess I might as well wrap this up. Thank you Monica for starting this wonderful school. Thank you Mom and Dad for not giving up on me. Thank you Sophia for being an awesome sister. Happy Sweet Sixteen! You got the power! Thank you Karen, Crystal and all of the staff and students in your class for an incredible school experience. Thank you to any CTC staff I forgot to mention but who are cool anyway. And thank you Tai and Sora for always being there for me. You two are very dear to me (despite being fictional) and deserve a mention in this speech just as much as the real people do. Okay, I’m done now. Congratulations to all the graduates and I’ll see you next year! Here are this weeks questions answered!! Keep them coming!!! The boys are loving this and we have a new participant joining us next week who will be able to chime in on the female perspective!!! Stay tuned!!! Question: Has anyone ever doubted the "authenticity" of your typing and how did you (or others) convince them it was you? KEIR I stay very focused on my own journey and dont care about whether people believe its me or not. People who believe its me get to know me well. People that dont believe its me will never get to know the real me and i am not interested in wasting my time convincing them of something they refuse to see. I am keir a person worth your time but if you doubt its me you are not worth my time. I have lots to accomplish but no time to waste. JEFF There will always be doubters and skeptics but we just need to keep doing what we are doing teaching people about presumed competence and spreading the word and knowledge of FC. We can only continue doing what we are doing and forget the ignorance of others. It's fear of the unknown and they are cowards. Question: How do you define a successful life? KEIR I consider my life successful. I have a family a school and friends. I communicate i am a person with thoughts and feelings that are very important to me. My thoughts about success are very different than many peoples thoughts. I define success as happiness and safety to feel content. I have both so my life is successful. You might define it differently but that is how i see it.just dont put to much emphasis on money it does not define success and might make you miss true success. JEFF A successful life is different for every person and manifests in different ways but I think the commonality is happiness,. Happiness comes in many forms like material possessions, relationships etc but successful happiness must come from within your soul and only you can be the judge of that. Please note the answers to the questions have been typed by the students and have not been altered, edited or reformatted in anyway. These are their genuine thoughts and responses.
We'd love to hear from you! If you would like to ask a question, please comment to this blog post, post to our Facebook page or send an email to [email protected]. “…they can’t express it but it doesn’t mean it’s not there. They often live very rich lives inside there, if you can get in there with them, you can discover that.” Ron Suskind Ron Suskind, Pulitzer Prize winning author, does an amazing job explaining the big picture concept of developmental approach (affinity) therapy as he shares his very personal story of his family and his son with autism. Watch the exclusive interview with Jon Stewart! We received so much feedback from Jeff and Keir's first post, they were THRILLED to see that their first message reached as far as Illinois, Washington and even WALES!!! This week, the first question chosen was from a CTC staff member...Question: From your perspective in observing and interacting with the verbal world at large, what do you view as the greatest disadvantage, if any, of having and using language? JEFF I think that we in general feel that speech is really for people who speak. Usually it really does not matter to us but it matters to speakers. please understand that we would like to have communication with you but we do not need spoken word with each other. i think that one of downfalls of spoken word is that people don't spend enough time listening. Mostly I notice people just answering without really thinking about the answer. only people who really care about the answer listen. KEIR I think there are advantages and disadvantages to both verbal and nonverbal communications but the main disadvantage is taking it for granted. Having a voice and not using it is the most wasteful and neglectful thing ever. It is so easy to for verbal people to voice opinions yet most stay so silent. Have and opinion. Fight fro something you believe in. Use the gift god gave you and make a difference. I do my best with what I have. You do a little with the lot god gave you. The second question chosen was from the comment below that came from our website from a non-CTC staff member all the way from Washington state!!Question: "You both got me thinking, Can animals abuse the earth? I am sure there are times when animals feel fear too. What exactly is abuse of the planet?" JEFF I am sure there are times when animals feel fear too. Animals have instinctive approaches to the earth. There only is greed by mankind. The bad intentions of man are what create abuse of Mother Earth. Animals do not have greed. Animals fear the predator but again it is instinctual. KEIR Animals do not abuse the earth because they live off the earth so it is pertinent for their survival. They may so called abuse each other but it is their animal instincts of survival kicking in. Abuse of the planet is a disregard for what gives us sustenance and a home. Without it we are nothing. Please note the answers to the questions have been typed by the students and have not been altered, edited or reformatted in anyway. These are their genuine thoughts and responses.
Celebrate the Children students Keir and Jeff participate in an after school program that gives them an opportunity to chat via Facilitated Communication. After brain storming ideas of how they would like the group to be formatted, they decided they would like to answer questions from the CTC community (and beyond!). Some of their thoughts include: Jeff: thoughts from our point of view will be food for thought of something profound Keir: questions from unknowing staff will be the greatest way to teach Jeff: what to write is what the readers want Keir: please get this message to the people of ctc KEIR's INPUT ABOUT THE KINDS OF QUESTIONS HE LIKES: I like questions that are expansive in thinking not questions that are easily answered. Maybe questions that could have many possible answers.questions that force people to look beyond surface beliefs that they talk about without thinking. The first round of questions…Question: What is your advice for students and staff who struggle with FC? KEIR I would say that if you are struggling with fc be patient and understanding it takes a long time to learn. Many people think typing with a new facilitator should be easy but it is one of the hardest things i have ever had to do. It is like learning something as difficult as asking a girl out i dont think i will evr figure that out but i imagine it would be hard to learn for most people not just me. So you understand it takes time and ptience but is worth every minute you give for practice to us who depend on your perserverence to help us communicate. If you give up we have no hope. Please keep trying it is important for us.critical too or we have no place to be heard. Thank you for being our greatest support even when it is hard. Quit complaining because it is not woking it will work but we need to practice together. Being a nonverbal student leaves us at your mercy please remember that and be strong for us. Thank you. JEFF FC is such a popular topic. Here are some tips I have First, FC is the most challenging and rewarding gift to child with no voice. It is exhausting so allow breaks for those starting off. Use the ladder of communication moving up and down as needed. Practice whenever you can and use the students passions as motivating topics. As for staff, patience is key. Our brains think fast but bodies slow. Also staff overthink everything so r e l a x. There will always be skeptics for everything but as long as you know the truth we prevail. Typing allows us to show intelligence where others thought there was none. Question: I once heard a person on the radio say that they felt that humans abuse the earth, other humans and animals, because they "fear pain"... Any comments? KEIR humans are fearful by nature. We are fearful of things we dont understand i think people act out in fear to protect themselves not from just pain but from ridicule. Being mean and degrading is easier than being open to ideas that oppose your beliefs. They find it easier to dismiss the blatant truth than to accept that they may be wrong. It is easier to harm things that have no defense so that they may feel superior and revered by their peers. What it shows is their weakness and unaccepting attitudes towrds things and people they feel are inferior. I feel sorrow for them they need our compassion to help them learn to approach life with love not fear or hate i want this message to be spread through the world but i will start with ctc. And want people to honestly look at their approach to life. Decide if you choose fear or love. You might be surprised if you are truthful to yourself. Think more about helping yourself with this because it will help your approach to all living things including us. I am thakfful for your questions and hope you send more. My mind is full of things to share if you just ask. JEFF People fear the unknown so the fact that we do not fully understand animals or other humans thoughts or actions is a huge concern for the people of the world we live in. People want control so no control of any situation is an uncomfortable place to be but we need to remember we can all coexist harmoniously or we wouldn't have been put In the same place at the same time. Learning about things you don't understand will eliminate fear. Knowledge is power. Please note the answers to the questions have been typed by the students and have not been altered, edited or reformatted in anyway. These are their genuine thoughts and responses.
If you would like to ask a question, please post to our Facebook page or send an email to [email protected]. The importance of having access to communication can be illustrated through a boy I met at the start of my career, 15 years ago; his story is my touchstone to approaching children and educating those working with children about language. Steven was 17 years old when I met him. He was a paraplegic and had no verbal speech with the exception of one vocalization that he used to get peoples attention, “aye aye.” Imagine, if you will, Steven, highly social, coasting down the hallway in his wheelchair greeting friends and staff, with a big smile, waving his hand over his head saying “aye aye.” This boy was often given sorting tasks in the classroom. Years ago decreased verbal output was linked with decreased cognition.
The speech therapist I replaced had ordered Steven an eight-cell voice output device, meaning Steven would have access to 8 messages per overlay for an activity. In therapy it was very clear Steven was eager to learn to use his device. I instructed his teacher about Steven’s new device and consulted her on what core vocabulary or overlays she needed for class to make the use of the device easy and successful for all. It soon became clear to me that the teacher was taking Steven’s device away as he was using it inappropriately in class and not returning it to him, but rather leaving it on a shelf, out of reach for the child. I educated the teacher that the child needed a 3-4 week time period of adjustment to learn appropriate behavior with the device, and that if a verbal child was interrupting the class that you couldn’t remove their voice box, but would have to deal with the verbal child’s interruptions with redirection back to the classroom topic. I urged Steven’s whole team to give it a real try over the next few weeks and if there were no progress we would revisit the appropriateness of the device. Within 2 weeks Steven proved to use the device effectively and appropriately and within 3 weeks outgrew the 8-cell device and was trialed with a 32-cell device (a big deal for a child who had no access to words for the past 17 years). Within 2 months Steven had overlays (with 32 messages per activity) for his boy scouts, for game playing, for circle time, a general core vocabulary for moving about the school, an overlay for occupational therapy and physical therapy, and an overlay for gym. He went from a child who was left to the side of the room to sort objects and to only participate socially with “aye aye,” to a child who used language across activities and was beginning to target more academic topics. One perspective to this story is it was a success story on giving a boy language. The perspective I take is that this was a boy, who was robbed of language for the first 17 years of his life, surely impacting his ability to develop to his maximum potential. I urge people to learn from Steven and allow consistent access to language, via their device, even if they are interrupting the class with it. They will not learn to use it appropriately if they are not allowed to learn how to use it. Their voice does not benefit them when it is on a shelf or in their desk. Their voice should be heard across activities and settings. (Lauren Butera, Speech Therapist, Celebrate the Children) |
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